Riding seems to be fun even when the destination is unknown.
All i want to have is a beautiful journey!!! Its entirely within me to make it adventurous and at the same time enjoy it.
We do face a lot of challenges in our daily life. I do have them like everyone else. Instead of playing the blame game, i am trying to learn the art of getting it solved.
It is lot better trying to find a solution, finding answers to our queries than just passing the pillow of our miseries to others.
Answers can be good or bad, important thing is to keep on finding these answers rather than forming a bubble of questions within us.
Passing the pillow can be a good time pass and with which one can get rid of our worries for a short time. But have we wondered "Whose pillow is it anyway"??
I am a human, i wont be 100% efficient in following the ideals... But i am at least trying to increase my efficiency.. That reminds me, what exactly one means by efficiency??
I have heard people including me using the word, inefficient.
For me, efficiency of a human is just in a more scientific terms--
Efficiency= Work done by a certain human / Total capacity or potential of that particular human.
In reality, the denominator value is much much higher than that of numerator. Hence, the efficiency is bound to be very very less.
If a machine can give a efficiency of 36-40% according to Mr. Carnot. Our efficiency will be very less. So, in that respect, i am in-efficient, and the worst part is, everyone is along with me.
Now, to increase our efficiency, it is important to know our boundaries and these boundaries are relative. Just like engines have temperatures as their boundaries, we do have time with us.
A engine performs better once its mechanism is known, we perform better when we understand, who are we... Our strengths and weakness and the way we utilize these two parameters translates in our mechanism.
A single engine cannot perform all the activities and in analogy, a single human cannot do all the things that a humankind can do. But a engine can be linked with many other accessories to improve its efficiency and we have a similar option.
So, its important to know, what are these accessories and where is it???
For that, its essential to know, Who am i?? Unless i know completely about myself, i would be making wrong choices in choosing my accessories. Thats ok, as long as we are increasing our efficiency, even by a few margin. A lifetime is not enough to recognize one's capacity, but it is possible to give it a shot.
Once we understand ourselves, we can understand others. We can connect pretty well, thereby increasing our chances to improve our efficiency.
Now one thing keeps coming back to me... "Why do we need this improvement in one's efficiency"
A simple answer to it "To satisfy our purpose in life and to live the life we always wanted to live"...
To put it in a much easier way... Its a universal truth that a building can withstand many storeys with a strong foundation. Similarly, unless we have a strong foundation within ourselves, we cannot expect our relationships to stay for a long time.
With a strong foundation, we can withstand any calamities and still retain those relationships.
Its important to be decorative and attractive from inside. That is where, we live. Be it a building, be it our life, its important to be beautiful and attractive from inside.
Not all are blessed with exterior beauty and one should not be taken aback for this lone factor in life.
But everyone is blessed for being beautiful from inside. From my little experience, its always the inner beauty which has the capacity to translate into external beauty and never vice-versa, no matter what.
Its natural to get attracted to external beauty, but persistence and longevity of this attraction is purely because of one's internal beauty.
This is precisely why most beautiful people in this world do not have beautiful life to live and not so beautiful people having beautiful life to live.
Very few can pull off being beautiful both exterior and interior. Thats a great piece of architecture. Mind you, everyone can be that architect. Architect of our life.
"Life is always beautiful, its a pity that we aren't that beautiful enough from inside so we tend to blame it on life"
I was thinking.. Why was i born???
There has to be a purpose in me hitting the earth.... I was born and i spent my childhood days with great pleasure doing things what i loved doing. Sometimes i went extreme, but thats ok, i paid the prices for crossing the conflicted boundaries.
If you think, i have learn t something from all my activities, you bet i have got to know so many things.
Many years forward, my childhood still stays fresh in my mind, almost every activity i was involved with. Some are through my friends who i still make contact with and others i just remember them, because they were the building blocks of my life, a beautiful life.
Now, if not a beautiful life, i have time to make it look beautiful.
There is a conscious inside us, and my conscious keeps hitting me, reminding of my purpose.
I was learning, everyone has a equal chance of leading this beautiful life on this earth.
At the same, it is up to the individuals to work hard and make himself accountable for his activities.
We just cannot blame the situation and surroundings for our state of life or failures.
Its just not acceptable. I am learning the fact, for my life to be in a good path, i need to take severe measures so that i am on the right track.
Some of us are born with certain advantage, but who is to be blamed for such advantages and dis-advantages. These things take a back step once you start realizing once capacity and capability.
The day one realizes what he/she needs to do in life, we stop asking questions to others... Instead we go on our own and search for the answers.
Its important for our eyes to be sweet in order to like all the people in this world, its equally important to have a sweet tongue in order to be liked by all the people in this world.
It is in equilibrium, and we need to maintain the balance.
All i would like to say is " Every Life has happy endings...... If its not happy, then its not the END yet"...
The sooner we realize this, the better we would appreciate this hidden beautiful life within us.
Ever wondered, how is it to spend a lifetime with kids???
Its marvelous... Although not everyone is destined.. What exactly is destiny??
I guess, its something which we make based on our decisions of a situation which we encounter.
We have opportunities right in front of us, but we have this habit of looking behind, as to what happened in the past and never look what lies ahead...
Coming back, we nurture a kid pretty well. Have we ever wondered, there is a kid within us???
He just stopped growing and went to hibernation...
Maybe he just couldn't survive in this, not so innocent world... hey, we did survive as kids in this world. So after all, it isn't that bad a world, the one we are living.
The credit goes to our parents...
All i would say, parents if they put things in a better way to a kid's question, the kid would never curse for rest of his/her life.
So, why are we being such a bad parent???
Why are we not allowing this whiz kid to enjoy his/her life??
Is it just the case, we not accepting ourselves completely. From past one year, i am trying hard to nourish this kid in me. I am feeding him with good thoughts. Things can be greasy around me, but i am teaching my kid, how to scoot along the greasy roads, its an adventure, a wonderful adventure. I am not all bothered about the destination, i am more focussed on journey.
For me, hope of doing anything exists in this world, as long as my kid is alive and healthy within me. Kid within me has full of energy and does what he feels and never bothers about any adversity or any person.
But like all kids, getting scared can be so easy, hey, this is where our mind, so-called mature mind should ensure, there isn't any such fear in the road to success.
Success is relative and all i can say is "Fulfilling the capacity of oneself is success".
Next time, when you see, children in a bad state, do ask yourself, Is my kid within me in a good condition???
This will be a reality check in many ways. Unless, we allow the kid within us to enjoy its potential, we wont be doing much justice to other children.
All kids wont need money, all they need is love, affection and feeling of being secured.
Next time when we are trying to help children who are in bad situation, do help yourself, not because of being selfish, but one can appreciate the life in a different way and in a more positive way.
We would be arriving at answers than asking questions which makes us wonder what the correct answer is.
When we present something to the kids who are in help, all i can say is, do present your kid within you. In that way, kids around us will enjoy much more with the kid within us.
